Embrace Change: The moment everything became clear.
- Margaret
- Jun 25
- 3 min read

There’s a moment in life when everything shifts. Not because we have to change, but because we align with something deeper. For me, that moment came at 50.
This past weekend, while celebrating a dear friend’s belated 50th birthday, I was reminded of something powerful. Turning 50 wasn’t a line in the sand. It wasn’t the end of ambition or relevance. It was the moment I stepped fully into who I am.
For years, many of us, especially women, have been conditioned to believe that ageing means stepping aside, slowing down, or staying small.
But here’s what I know to be true:
50 is not the finish line. It’s the doorway to our most aligned, intentional, and powerful selves.
As I sat among old friends, swapping stories between laughter and reflection, I felt a deep truth rise in me: I’ve come so far and there’s still so much more I’m meant to do.
I’ve learned that business is just like life. It’s not about reaching a final destination. It’s about becoming. Evolving and growing into the vision we once only dared to imagine.
For the woman wondering if she’s missed her moment
Let me speak to your heart:
You haven’t missed anything.
Your story is still unfolding.
Whether you’re launching a business, navigating a pivot, or seeking the kind of support that helps you grow. You are exactly where you need to be.
When someone recently asked me what the best season of my life has been, I didn’t hesitate. I said, “My 50th year”.
Why? Because it was a year of clarity, celebration, and bold decisions.
I stopped playing small. I stopped waiting for the “right time”.
I aligned my personal growth with my professional purpose, and I gave myself permission to be both visionary and grounded.
Change doesn’t just happen; it unfolds when we align
As business owners, we’re constantly invited into growth. Whether it’s refining systems, exploring new tools, welcoming aligned clients, or calling in support that truly understands the heart of what we do.
Transformation begins when we stop resisting and start flowing with the change.
When we stop shrinking and begin standing fully in our wisdom, experience, and inner knowing.
When we call in support that isn’t just transactional, but deeply intentional.
People who walk beside us with clarity, care, and purpose.
That’s why I created Proficient Virtual Assistant Services, to be that grounded, intuitive partner for women and business owners who are ready to grow, evolve, and step into their next chapter with confidence and calm alignment.
You don’t have to do it alone
Whether you’re restructuring your business, building out your backend systems, or simply ready to stop doing it all yourself. I’m here to help.
I bring over 35 years of experience in executive support, compliance, administration, and business transformation. But more than that, I bring heart.
Because I’ve been there. I know the courage it takes to evolve.
And I know the kind of support that makes it possible to thrive, not just survive.
So, if you’re at a turning point…
If you’re feeling the pull to do things differently…
If you’re ready to build a business that reflects who you truly are becoming…
Let’s connect.
Because with the right systems, support, and soulful alignment, we don’t just run businesses.
We create legacies.
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